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In One Ear and Out the Other: When the Word Never Reaches the Heart

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A Funny Story With a Not‑So‑Funny Truth

Three men went deer hunting, and as they crossed a field on their way to the woods, a massive buck jumped up right in front of them. All three fired at the same moment. The buck dropped instantly, and the men hurried over—only to realize they had a problem. Who actually shot the deer?

As they stood there debating, a game warden approached to check licenses. Hearing the dilemma, he knelt down, examined the buck, and said, “One of you is a preacher, right?” Sure enough, one of them was. The warden nodded and said, “Well, the preacher’s the one who got him.” The men stared at him in disbelief. “How can you know that?” The warden shrugged. “Simple. The bullet went in one ear and out the other.”

It’s a humorous story, but beneath the laughter lies a sobering truth—one James warned the church about with prophetic clarity when he wrote, “Be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves” (James 1:22).

When Hearing Becomes Self‑Deception

Hearing is not the problem. Hearing without obeying is. A message that goes in one ear and out the other never reaches the heart, and the heart is the only place where real transformation takes place. Jesus Himself said the greatest commandment is to “love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength” (Mark 12:30). The mind matters. The mind is essential. But the mind is not the destination. It is the doorway. The heart is the target.

The preacher in the story fired a shot that passed through the deer’s head but never touched the heart. It produced death, not life. It left a carcass, not a conversion. And that is exactly what happens when the Word of God is received only at the level of intellect. It may pass through the mind, but if it never penetrates the heart, it cannot produce obedience, repentance, or new life. It becomes information without transformation.

A Wound That Never Heals Becomes Fatal

Here is the deeper truth: a bullet that never reaches the heart can still kill you. It can wound you. It can tear flesh, rupture arteries, and leave you bleeding out. A wound is not harmless simply because it missed the center.

And the same is true of the Word when it is only received intellectually. A sermon aimed at the mind alone may not transform you, but it can still wound you. It can leave you convicted but unchanged, aware of truth but still resisting it. You can feel the sting of conviction without ever surrendering to it. And that kind of wound, left unattended, becomes spiritually fatal.

The writer of Hebrews says, “The word of God is living and active, sharper than any two‑edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and spirit, of joints and marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart” (Hebrews 4:12). The Word is designed to pierce. It is meant to cut deep enough to expose motives, confront sin, and bring healing through repentance. But when the Word is only admired, analyzed, or agreed with—when it is heard but not obeyed—it becomes a cut that never closes. Over time, the soul begins to hemorrhage. Not because the Word failed, but because the heart never yielded.

When the Lips Say “Amen” but the Heart Stays Distant

Jesus described this condition when He said, “This people honors Me with their lips, but their heart is far from Me” (Matthew 15:8). The mind can say “Amen” while the heart remains untouched. The intellect can applaud truth while the will refuses to bow to it.

James continues this warning by saying, “For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks intently at his natural face in a mirror… and goes away and at once forgets what he was like” (James 1:23–24). The problem is not the hearing. The problem is the forgetting. The problem is the lack of response. The problem is the absence of obedience.

Truth that only grazes the mind can still leave a person spiritually dying. Truth that never reaches the heart cannot save. Truth that never produces obedience becomes a slow bleed. Eternal death does not always come from outright rebellion. Sometimes it comes from a lifetime of sermons that never penetrated deeper than the intellect.

The Word Must Be Received With Surrender, Not Just Agreement

This is why preaching must aim for the heart. This is why hearing must lead to doing. This is why the Word must be received with surrender, not merely agreement. Jesus said, “Everyone then who hears these words of Mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock” (Matthew 7:24). Hearing is the beginning. Doing is the evidence. Obedience is the fruit. Transformation is the result.

Do not let God’s Word pass through you without penetrating you. Do not let it skim the surface of your mind without sinking into the soil of your heart. Do not let it go in one ear and out the other. Slow down. Meditate. Respond. Obey. Let the Word reach the place where life is changed. Let it pierce, not to destroy, but to heal. Let it cut, not to wound, but to free. Let it strike the heart, for only there does the Word bring life. It isn’t about how much Bible you know or can quote but how much you actually put into practice.

Don’t let His Word go in one ear

and right out the other!

From Manger to Marriage: Preparing the Bride, Not the Cradle

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God’s Jealous Holiness

The very first commandment thunders: “You shall have no other gods before Me” (Exodus 20:3). This is not a suggestion—it is the foundation of covenant faith. God is a consuming fire (Deuteronomy 4:24), a jealous God who refuses to share His glory with idols (Isaiah 42:8). When His people profane His name by mixing pagan practices with worship, His wrath is stirred. Israel learned this the hard way: when they borrowed from Baal and the nations, He sent them into exile (Jeremiah 7:30–34).

Today, the church risks the same judgment. By elevating Christmas—a festival grafted onto the pagan worship of Sol Invictus, the sun god—we profane His holiness. We call it “the Christmas story,” but nowhere in Scripture are we commanded to honor His birth. The gospel is not about repeating manger scenes; it is about Christ crucified, risen, and returning.

The manger is past; the marriage is coming.

The Days of Noah Revisited

Jesus warned: “As it was in the days of Noah, so shall it be at the coming of the Son of Man” (Matthew 24:37–39). In Noah’s day, people ate, drank, married, bought, and sold—business as usual—until judgment swept them away.

Is it any different now? We have Christmas parties, shopping frenzies, and sentimental carols. There are decorated trees and manger displays. Meanwhile, the church remains oblivious to the urgency of Christ’s return. We are living in the days of Noah again: distracted, unprepared, blind to the storm clouds of judgment.

The manger is past; the marriage is coming.

The Gospel’s Completeness

The Incarnation was necessary because of sin, but it is not the center of the gospel. Scripture declares: “Christ was offered once to bear the sins of many” (Hebrews 9:28). Once born, once crucified, once risen. The manger is history; the cross is complete.

We do not rebirth Him every December. We do not repeat the gospel cycle of “baby Jesus” year after year. The gospel is eternal, not seasonal. Christ is alive, reigning, and coming again.

The manger is past; the marriage is coming.

The Bride vs. the Cradle

  • Christmas Sentiment: Preparing straw, donkeys, sheep, and manger scenes.
  • Kingdom Reality: Preparing garments of righteousness, hearts of repentance, and readiness for the Bridegroom (Revelation 19:7).

The church’s obsession with the cradle blinds it to the call of the Bride. Jesus is not looking for another manger; He is looking for a bride clothed in holiness, ready to receive Him.

The manger is past; the marriage is coming.

Hebrews 6: A Rebuke to Infancy

“Therefore let us leave the elementary doctrine of Christ and go on to maturity, not laying again a foundation of repentance from dead works and of faith toward God…” (Hebrews 6:1–3).

This is the piercing word for our generation. Year after year, the church lays again the same foundation. It presents Jesus as a baby in a manger. It shows Jesus on a cross and Jesus in a tomb. We rehearse the same scenes, decorate the same altars, and sing the same sentimental songs. But we never move on to the deeper things. These include resurrection power, eternal judgment, the indwelling Spirit, and the preparation of the Bride.

God’s Wrath Against Idolatry

The prophets declared that God hates corrupted festivals (Amos 5:21–23). He judged kings who tolerated Baal worship. He destroyed altars that profaned His name.

Christmas is not harmless tradition—it is a borrowed glory, a pagan overlay baptized into the church. God’s wrath is against all ungodliness and idolatry (Romans 1:18). To elevate Christmas as a “high holy day” is to risk His jealousy.

The Prophetic Call

The Spirit is saying: Stop profaning His glory with borrowed festivals.

  • Return to His appointed times—Passover, Pentecost, Tabernacles—the feasts Christ fulfilled and will fulfill.
  • Celebrate the living Christ, not a sentimental tradition.
  • Prepare not for another manger, but for the coming King.
  • Grow up into maturity—leave behind childish cycles and walk in the fullness of Christ.

The manger is past; the marriage is coming.

Closing Admonition

The jealous God is not looking for decorated trees or nostalgic carols. He is looking for a bride clothed in righteousness, ready to meet Him. The manger is past; the marriage is coming. The days of Noah are upon us—business as usual while judgment looms.

The call is urgent: repent, prepare, and watch, for the Bridegroom is at the door. Let us leave behind infancy and tradition, and go on to maturity in Christ.

The manger is past; the marriage is coming.