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From Manger to Marriage: Preparing the Bride, Not the Cradle

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God’s Jealous Holiness

The very first commandment thunders: “You shall have no other gods before Me” (Exodus 20:3). This is not a suggestion—it is the foundation of covenant faith. God is a consuming fire (Deuteronomy 4:24), a jealous God who refuses to share His glory with idols (Isaiah 42:8). When His people profane His name by mixing pagan practices with worship, His wrath is stirred. Israel learned this the hard way: when they borrowed from Baal and the nations, He sent them into exile (Jeremiah 7:30–34).

Today, the church risks the same judgment. By elevating Christmas—a festival grafted onto the pagan worship of Sol Invictus, the sun god—we profane His holiness. We call it “the Christmas story,” but nowhere in Scripture are we commanded to honor His birth. The gospel is not about repeating manger scenes; it is about Christ crucified, risen, and returning.

The manger is past; the marriage is coming.

The Days of Noah Revisited

Jesus warned: “As it was in the days of Noah, so shall it be at the coming of the Son of Man” (Matthew 24:37–39). In Noah’s day, people ate, drank, married, bought, and sold—business as usual—until judgment swept them away.

Is it any different now? We have Christmas parties, shopping frenzies, and sentimental carols. There are decorated trees and manger displays. Meanwhile, the church remains oblivious to the urgency of Christ’s return. We are living in the days of Noah again: distracted, unprepared, blind to the storm clouds of judgment.

The manger is past; the marriage is coming.

The Gospel’s Completeness

The Incarnation was necessary because of sin, but it is not the center of the gospel. Scripture declares: “Christ was offered once to bear the sins of many” (Hebrews 9:28). Once born, once crucified, once risen. The manger is history; the cross is complete.

We do not rebirth Him every December. We do not repeat the gospel cycle of “baby Jesus” year after year. The gospel is eternal, not seasonal. Christ is alive, reigning, and coming again.

The manger is past; the marriage is coming.

The Bride vs. the Cradle

  • Christmas Sentiment: Preparing straw, donkeys, sheep, and manger scenes.
  • Kingdom Reality: Preparing garments of righteousness, hearts of repentance, and readiness for the Bridegroom (Revelation 19:7).

The church’s obsession with the cradle blinds it to the call of the Bride. Jesus is not looking for another manger; He is looking for a bride clothed in holiness, ready to receive Him.

The manger is past; the marriage is coming.

Hebrews 6: A Rebuke to Infancy

“Therefore let us leave the elementary doctrine of Christ and go on to maturity, not laying again a foundation of repentance from dead works and of faith toward God…” (Hebrews 6:1–3).

This is the piercing word for our generation. Year after year, the church lays again the same foundation. It presents Jesus as a baby in a manger. It shows Jesus on a cross and Jesus in a tomb. We rehearse the same scenes, decorate the same altars, and sing the same sentimental songs. But we never move on to the deeper things. These include resurrection power, eternal judgment, the indwelling Spirit, and the preparation of the Bride.

God’s Wrath Against Idolatry

The prophets declared that God hates corrupted festivals (Amos 5:21–23). He judged kings who tolerated Baal worship. He destroyed altars that profaned His name.

Christmas is not harmless tradition—it is a borrowed glory, a pagan overlay baptized into the church. God’s wrath is against all ungodliness and idolatry (Romans 1:18). To elevate Christmas as a “high holy day” is to risk His jealousy.

The Prophetic Call

The Spirit is saying: Stop profaning His glory with borrowed festivals.

  • Return to His appointed times—Passover, Pentecost, Tabernacles—the feasts Christ fulfilled and will fulfill.
  • Celebrate the living Christ, not a sentimental tradition.
  • Prepare not for another manger, but for the coming King.
  • Grow up into maturity—leave behind childish cycles and walk in the fullness of Christ.

The manger is past; the marriage is coming.

Closing Admonition

The jealous God is not looking for decorated trees or nostalgic carols. He is looking for a bride clothed in righteousness, ready to meet Him. The manger is past; the marriage is coming. The days of Noah are upon us—business as usual while judgment looms.

The call is urgent: repent, prepare, and watch, for the Bridegroom is at the door. Let us leave behind infancy and tradition, and go on to maturity in Christ.

The manger is past; the marriage is coming.